where a kid can be a kid

Today, my bff, Jesika, Rob, and I had planned to take the kids out for a while. We did dinner and then took them to Chuck E Cheese for a little while. We let them run wild and tire themselves out so when bed time came around, we wouldn't have any problems. All was good. She and I got the chance to converse and the kids had a great time. That is until.....one of the twins was upset because another girl was hogging one of the games. The twin waited patiently to use her two little tokens but the other little girl took her time. She came back upset that she wasn't getting a turn. Jesika and I both looked over and saw an older woman standing behind her. I said to Jes, here, I'll take her. I walked over with the twin and stood patiently for a while. The little girl got off and I expected the older woman to walk away with her. It threw me off when the woman began to put tokens in the machine. After about 15 tokens, I asked her...politely, "Can you please let her have a turn?". She sternly said to me, "Sure, after I'm done." I was taken aback due to the fact that any other right minded adult would have said ok. The woman continued to deposit tokens and play away. I stood there in disbelief!! The twin was disappointed and Jesika came as reinforcement. I would have understood if this woman had her granddaughter and was playing with her, but she was by herself. In this situation I would have given up my spot for a little girl to play as I'm sure most of you would have too. In the end this woman finally stopped playing. Words were exchanged and she dropped the f bomb all the way back to her table. It took her longer to argue with us than to just let the twin use her 2 tokens.

ROUND 2- Her daughter came to our table after and asked which one of us had threatened her mom. She threatened to call the police on us. I told her to quit talking about it and do it. In the end the police weren't called but this woman and the group she was with watched our every move. On their way out they all gave us the stink eye...one by one. We laughed it off. They were still upset about it. The Chuck E Cheese worker apologized for the situation and gave the girls more tokens. We were just trying to use up the last of them so we could go home. We walked out shortly after them and Jesika had to call her daughter's father to meet us in the parking lot...just in case. All was good and we were safe.

I guess I just don't get why an adult would act like that. She was selfish and the whole thing was uncalled for. But now I understand why people catch fights at Chuck E Cheese and then post them on youtube. If you hurt my child or the children that mean the world to me, expect me to react. The twin just wanted to use her two little tokens. It wouldn't have hurt the old hag to let her do that and then return to the game after she was done. Problem solved. I know people lack common sense, but if you are in an establishment where the motto is "where a kid can be a kid", don't take that from them because behind that small child waiting patiently, there is a parent ready to ensure their happiness. Jesika, you're my ride or die girl!

tooth, spring, octu-mom, hormones

Guess what!! Her tooth has cut through. It is the cutest little thing I have ever seen. She is kind of shy about it because she really won't let anyone look at it. You kind of have to catch a glimpse when you can. Trick her sort of. I have to pretend like I am going to give her food and pull down her bottom lip. It's a little on the mean side because I know how she is when it comes to her food. I tried taking a picture while she slept to show everyone but it didn't come out right. As soon as she smiles wide enough to show it off, you better believe I am posting that picture. We can't wait for her to start biting us!!

We have a lot to look forward to in the next few months. Mamita is turning 1, baby baby should be here soon after, my mother and brother's birthdays, then Bobby's 9th birthday, and last but certainly not least, Robert's birthday which also kicks off the summer! We will always have busy spring season's. I will also get to spend 3 wonderful months at home with my family. I intend to take the entire 12 weeks off allowed by FMLA after baby baby is born.

I know I will have my hands full with Juliana and baby baby. Bobby is just a big help and a GREAT big brother to Juliana. I'm sure he will adapt well with a new baby. What does worry me a little is how we will manage. I wonder if "Octu-mom" thought about these things when she decided to have 6 embryos implanted. Having one child is life changing let alone two back to back. Now, give birth to 8 at the same time AND have 6 more at home?! I can't imagine what that woman was thinking or going through now. It's just overwhelming and I'm not even in her situation.

I have things to do now. I start getting things ready for the next day at around this time. I like to go to bed early so I am not a crab ass at work. Whatever good mood I may be in is usually gone by the time I step out of my car in the morning anyway. So, I blame it on the hormones. It works because then Robert doesn't have to deal with my attitude alone. I share it with everyone. Muhahaha.

here's some pictures for your enjoyment

the gift that keeps on giving

Little has happened since the last time I wrote. I will be 32 weeks pregnant on Thursday. You know what that means, right? 8 weeks left. Woo hoo! I have to go to my doctor every two weeks until my 36th week. Then I will have to go every week until I give birth. My doctor said that we will more than likely have to do another ultrasound, only because there was a discrepancy in my due date. That will happen mid March sometime.

Robert and I had parent/teacher/student conference last week at Bobby's school. I can't complain because Bobby's report card was exceptional. His teacher had nothing but praises. I think we are doing something right. I'm a little strict on my parenting when it comes to him. I may even be over protective at times. Ok, ok...I am VERY over protective. It's only because he is my child and I have to protect what's mine. I'm like a lioness. RAWR!

Valentine's Day... We were planning on going to dinner and a movie but we didn't end up having a baby sitter. It was ok because I knew anywhere we went was going to be crowded. We were at home with the kids and it was nice. I gave them all cards and some small gifts. I bet you're wondering what I got. Well, Robert got me a blender!!! I laugh when I think about it because it was one of those gifts that was really for him. He had been wanting a blender since he broke our last one. For those of you that don't know, Robert, is the one that cooks for us. He is a good cook and I really appreciate that from him. A blender is a gift that will keep on giving. I just want him to get in the kitchen and make me a smoothie! I also got some Valentine's themed socks. Ummm...they didn't fit. My favorite was my monkey slippers. I wouldn't have chosen them for me, but I really like them. Robert knows me and knows what make me happy. It really doesn't take much. Feed me and let me sleep every once in a while. :)

b**** session

According to my calculations in am 30 weeks pregnant. I swear time is stuck on slow. Does it feel slow to everyone else or no? Maybe it's because I only had a small window of time to not be pregnant after Mama. I just can't wait to wear normal clothes. Pants with zippers and buttons and shirts that don't ride up and expose my belly. I can't wait to sleep on my stomach. I am looking forward to being able to run again or even walk fast. I can't do either without feeling like my baby is gonna just fall out. I'd like to have a beer or a glass of wine after a long day. Or how 'bout just be able to have my son wrap his arms around me when he hugs me. It's quite the challenge nowadays.

Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of perks to being pregnant. People are usually nicer. I get to park in the front of the police station versus parking in the employee lot. Which really isn't that bad of a walk. I use my belly as a mini table to prop up a bowl of ice cream or the remote and my cell phone. How about the pregnant girl parking at the mall? I am yet to find a spot. Robert is always willing to go get my craving of the week if I ask him to. If I want to eat lunch twice, everyone understands that the second meal is for the occupant. I guess I shouldn't complain.

Basically, what it comes down to is that I can't wait to hold #3. I can't wait to meet her and look at her teeny tiny face. I can't wait for her to meet her siblings. Bobby will be the big brother and protector and she and Juliana will be best friends. I am just hoping that baby baby looks like me. At this time I am 0 for 2.

I would just like it known that we will NOT be trying for Irish triplets.

Comments

I guess I had the wrong setting on the comments section. I went ahead and corrected that in case anyone decided they wanted to leave a comment. I know a few of you have tried and were unsuccessful. Now you don't have to put in your SSN, place and time of birth, e-mail address, and mother's maiden name.

Cause they are so cute!

Just enjoy their faces. I know I do.

The Gathering

I had people gather at my house for Super Bowl Sunday. It wasn't a party. It was a GATHERING for a VIEWING. I made sure that everyone knew that. It was a good time and everyone seemed to enjoy themselves.

My daughter was sick with a fever Saturday afternoon into Sunday. It didn't dawn on my that she may be teething. I just figured she would be like her brother and get her first tooth after her first year. My friend, Jesika is the one who suggested it. I put my finger in her mouth and I felt her bottom gums swollen. I think we should be seeing her first pearly white anytime now. It makes me happy but at the same time, it makes me feel as if time is just flying by. When I look at Bobby, I see the subtle changes that he's going through, physically, mentally, and emotionally. He's growing up quickly. Robert and I make sure to remember that he is still a child and not an adult in a small body. I am amazed by him and how he is. He surprises me with his vocabulary and his understanding of events. He's only 8, but I feel that he's a lot more mature than that.

For those of you who know me, know that I have 3 BFF's. Jesika, Vida, and Janessa. I love them with all of my heart and wouldn't trade them for the world. When people say that blood is thicker than water, it's because they haven't been as lucky as me to have girls like them in their lives. I consider these girls my family and as long as they let me be in their lives, I will.


I know today's posting is a little off. I feel a little distracted and I'm not sure why. Maybe it was all the yelling we did. Maybe it's because I am super tired. Or maybe it's because I know that tomorrow, it's back to the grind I go. I really enjoyed my weekend with my friend's and family.

Before I go, I would like to say Happy Birthday to one of my favorite aunts in law, Candelaria Malaria! Happy 28th Birthday! We love you. ;)